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Dating online can be filled with lots of tricky questions from the start. For many bisexuals, this is not an easy conversation to have. Some accuse us of being predisposed to cheating. Others wonder if we can ever be happy in a monogamous relationship. Frequently, we get sexualized like when a straight man automatically assumes a bisexual woman is completely open to a threesome. But when exactly is the right time? For many bisexuals, putting their sexuality in their profile is the way to go, since it allows you to automatically avoid people who may be uncomfortable with bisexuality. Others believe that revealing your bi status on the first date, or the first few dates, is the best option.

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Intimacy-positive week is continuing with a guest post from my bisexual friend Sana Al-Badri. My own comments are in the footnotes. Welcome to my very bi dating advice, from a bi woman to bi women and of course, to readers who are curious about bisexual dating.

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Start the night by checking in, grabbing a drink at the cash bar and mixing and mingling with other singles as they check in. Every few minutes we rotate to the next woman until everyone has met each other. A pencil and paper will be provided for you to take notes on whom you met. Continue any conversations with anyone you had your eye on in a safe way. Check in is at and the dating begins at Please check in at so you have a chance to mix and mingle before the dating begins.

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Chances are, at least one person you know has met their partner using a dating app. Male, female, or non-binary, regardless of how you identify or what you like in bed , we all use them. And yet, most apps are still designed with only cis straight people in mind.

Instead, I told myself that my attraction to women was just a side effect of growing more comfortable with my (straight) sexuality — basically a.

Lighthouse therapist Deanna Richards offers advice for monosexual people in relationships with a bisexual partner. Bisexual people often occupy a challenging space between gay, lesbian, and heterosexual communities. We sat down with Lighthouse therapist Deanna Richards to discuss how both partners can communicate clearly and overcome the challenges that accompany dating someone of a different sexual orientation. Jealousy and insecurity can arise in any relationship, but may pop up more frequently in relationships in which one partner is non-monosexual.

This paranoia, says Richards, is typically a product of biphobia, or ingrained assumptions that bisexual people are more promiscuous than monosexual people, which is just one of many myths associated with bisexuality. Those same feelings of jealousy and inadequacy can fuel attitudes of bi-erasure in the monosexual partner. Ideally, the bisexual partner will be open about their identity from the get-go.

A New Study Explains Why Many Lesbians Are Biased Against Bisexual Women

Bisexuality: not a new concept, but one that still seems mysterious and confusing to some people. No, go away, and yes are the respective answers to those questions above. At least, I hope the final answer is yes, because otherwise I am about to experience the world’s largest existential crisis and frankly, now is not the best time. I came out as bisexual in my early 20s following an adolescence of suspecting my attraction to others was more complex than I was willing to admit.

While I’m comfortable with myself now and can laugh at some of the awkward questions people have thrown my way, it’s worth remembering everyone’s relationship with their sexuality is personal and unique. What might seem an innocent question to one person could be upsetting to another, so let’s be mindful that everyone is on their own journey.

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Make no mistake, gay and lesbian people have more positive attitudes toward bisexual women and men compared to heterosexuals. However, they harbor more negativity toward bisexuals than toward other gay men and lesbian women, and they endorse more bi-negativity than do bisexuals or other sexual minorities including those who identify as asexual , queer, and pansexual. So, why are many lesbians so anti-bi? A new study recently published in the journal Psychology of Sexual Orientation and Gender Diversity suggests that this might be due to what the researchers call the androcentric desire hypothesis : The fact that people gay men and lesbians alike perceive bisexuals as being more sexually attracted to men than they are to women.

In both cases, the sexuality of bisexual women and men appears to be perceived as oriented toward men. Confirming past research, lesbian women were more negative toward bisexuals than were gay men, and they were more negative toward bisexual women than gay men were toward bisexual men, in particular. Furthermore, as the graph below shows, the results mostly supported the androcentric desire hypothesis.

Lesbian and gay participants both agreed that bisexual men are significantly more attracted to men than they are to women, and lesbian women felt that this was true of bisexual women as well.

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This piece originally appeared on Femsplain. Femsplain is a community for everyone, powered by personal stories from anyone female-identified. It has been given minor edits before re-posting.

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A large number of studies show that married people enjoy better health than unmarried people, such as lower rates of depression and cardiovascular conditions , as well as longer lives. However, these findings have been developed primarily based on data of heterosexual populations and different-sex marriages. Only more recently have a few studies looked into gay and lesbian populations and same-sex marriages to test if marriage is related to better health in these populations — and the evidence is mixed.

Our study , published online on Sept. We discovered that bisexual adults do not experience better health when married. Using representative data from the to National Health Interview Survey , we compared reports of self-rated health and functional limitation — difficulty doing activities without assistance or special equipment — across 1, bisexual adults, 2, gay and lesbian adults and , heterosexual adults.

Both heterosexual and gay and lesbian individuals are better off in terms of health when they are married than when unmarried. Why does this happen? There are two popular explanations.

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A recent survey from the sex toy company Adam and Eve found that 47 percent of Americans—yes, nearly half—would not date someone who identified as bisexual. And the rest aren’t even sure they would: While 35 percent are definitely open to it, the other 19 percent are still undecided. One study actually found that bisexual people have poorer health , and the authors believe this may be because they have trouble fitting in anywhere.

What might seem an innocent question to one person could be upsetting to another — so think twice before asking your bisexual friend to “pick.

This piece was originally published at TheLStop. Within every lesbian community there exists a tale as old as time, a proverb as common as it is contentious: Bi women cheat, betray, and ultimately leave — never for another woman, but for a man. Like those who flee the tumults of city life for quieter and less complicated pastures, bisexual women may seem destined, in the eyes of gay women, to trade the grit and hardships of queer life for the suburbs of heteroville.

But is this really because we prefer a life of white-picket simplicity and comfort? Or could it be that, when it comes to romance between queer women, the game has been rigged from the start? Like many stereotypes, the lived experiences of one group have almost certainly colored the perceptions of another, however unfairly or inaccurately. I spent the first two decades of my life living as a closeted trans woman — a bisexual male to the outside world.

I have since transitioned, and now live as a bisexual woman. My experiences with dating, both before and after transitioning, have magnified the differences in how courtship and sexual pursuit are modeled for both genders. Physically, I mean. But they make me feel wanted and desired in a way that very few women ever do. In this situation, if I approach romance even slightly more passively, or deviate from heteronormative standard practice in any way, the momentum between us fizzles out in a hurry.

Conversely, my relationships with straight men go haywire the moment I try to take a more active role in romance or courting.

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I presumed that my LGBTQ+ friends would be the most understanding and accepting of my bisexuality. I was wrong.

As I sat across from my date at a bar patio, the orange hue of street lights creating a halo around her, I shared the story of an awkward date. She asked for the gender of the person. Yes, this was a man, I informed her. It seemed like a harmless question until later in the date, when she proceeded to talk about her poor experiences with bi women. At our next bar, she talked about how her previous dates and online connections with bi women eventually ended without any physical connection and surmised that they really wanted to date men.

She questioned if these people actually wanted to sleep with women at all. The world still assumes heterosexuality as the norm and the world generally sees me as a straight woman rather than a bi nonbinary person.

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That would happen later. First, I had to come out to myself. Growing up in a socially conservative religion, I was taught that sex was reserved for monogamously married men and women. Well, I could chalk that up to appraisal, not desire.

Bi women don’t always have an easy time even in liberal San Francisco. Photo: David Silverman, Getty Images. Hours before a date with a Tinder.

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I’ve fooled around with women before, kissing and heavy petting and such, but nothing I would describe as sex. It doesn’t help that the lesbian cis women I personally know are Obviously notalllesbians, but every lesbian woman I’ve been close with has been very irritated by me identifying as bisexual if I haven’t had sex with women.

My best friend recently snapped at me that I’m just a fake bisexual for attention if I’ve never acted on it. Another friend told me that being bisexual was a privilege and I had no right to “whine” about the difficult aspects of it to her. The two LGBTQ groups I’ve been part of were dominated by monosexual people who did not have many nice things to say about bisexual women.

So while I’m sure this isn’t universal, it’s definitely a pattern for me personally and it hurts a lot. So now I’m headed down a dark path where I’m becoming actively scared of approaching lesbian women. I’ve tried to find bisexual women through dating apps, but having a profile as a young-ish bisexual woman looking to experiment only seems to attract straight dudes looking for threesomes which I’m actually open to, but these creeps sure do know how to snatch defeat from the jaws of victory!

I guess other bisexual women have the same problem I do, because I can’t find them for the life of me.

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